Alright, I got a beef. And even worse it will only be read by complete strangers. Why are most dad's unavailable? Women aren't stronger then men. . .well most of us. If just sucks that we know we must carry on no matter what is around us for our children. Personally my dad left when I was little...like 3. My uncle recently cheated on my aunt--who had been together for like, forever. And now what are their kids supposed to do? They got four girls together ranging from 10 to 28. What the heck!! And of course now hes a dick and can't do much for his kids so mom is stuck with the bill and emotional questions. I read a book called the '5 love languages' and it helped a little. It explains how people show love and understand love in different ways. So you may be showing someone love the only you know how to but they don't see it because their love language is something different. I added a picture of my lil girl and her daddy because its a little weird to me. I don't know how to encourage their relationship but thank God that I don't need to. I can see his love for her on a daily basis. He even covers her eyes already when watching a violent movie lol. For some reason I doubt I had that. Is it because they come from our belly? Because we had them for 9 months before daddy met them? Is it because were just softer then men? Why can men just leave their children like a bad job? Shoot, they care more about their electronics then their kids sometimes. I guess I just wish I had no conscience sometimes too. . . .
Fear is a big reason I think - fearing they aren't good enough, that they can't cope and a little bit or maybe a lot of selfish. I don't think a lot of people realise just what a 'job' having children is - but what a rewarding job I am sure, it's sad but true but I do beleive that they miss out far more in the long term and it's all things and time they can never get back! So it ends up being their loss.
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